Ok I posted about my breakup yday but wanted to get guys opinions on my relationship with ex(sigh!!) bf!! He was in his previous relationship 10 years on and off. She's an alcoholic and violent with him sleeps with anyone including her bro in law and his best friend. And is a terrible mum to their 6 year old son. The kid is sent upstairs at 6 so she can start drinking. She never takes her son out or shows an interest in his school life. She split up with him last January taking everything out of the house while he was at work. They began divorce proceedings in August. That's when we got together. We got on brilliantly from the start. He said I let him be himself. We both said we'd never been so happy, so in love, it was the best sex ever. We never fell out. We didn't tell her we were together till October. Immediately she started causing trouble tried to have J arrested for assault when he went to pick his son up. He was sat outside in the car all the time!! Then a week later she phoned J up saying his ex best friend had beaten her up and she wanted to come back to J. He told her he'd moved on and was happy with me. But she started texting and phoning him begging him to take her back. Even sitting outside the house all night. She used his kid against him, not letting him see him, keeping him off school. So he promised me he wouldn't take her back and the weeks went by. Then on 19th December he sent me a lovely text in the morn as always and I didn't hear from him till 6 that night. It turns out she didnt send the kid to school so he went round to find out why. He stayed 5 hours!! They got talking and she said wouldnt it be great to back together with the kid for Christmas?? And he didnt know what to do he loved me but wanted his kid to have his parents together. So I said go back to her. He went from my house at 10 to tell her he was getting back with her then came back to mine at 11 and stayed until half 1. After that he phoned me for 2 hours a day until Christmas Eve when I told him I wanted no contact. He wants to stay friends but is that just to be polite or out of guilt?? We text now a couple of times a day. But I want to know what u think about him sending me that text in the morn and then wanting to get back with her at night?? Do u think I let him go to easily?? Will he want to come back?? Thanks for ur replies!!