I went on a date with a guy last week. We'd had one other date about 2 years ago, but I hadn't wanted to see him again after that...I wasn't ready for a relationship right then. So we bumped into each other again recently and arranged another date. We got along really well - the chemistry was fantastic and we spent the night together. He sad he thought we had lots in common and I was beautiful, lovely hair, great figure and a really warm personality. He sent me a text the next day to say he had a great time. I replied, but I didn't hear back.
I was due to be going away but changed my plans, so I texted him and asked if he'd like to meet up, and he said yes, so we met for drinks - it went really well. At the end of the night he said that he'd had a lovely time, but nothing about seeing each other again.
He's 48 and he hasn't had a girlfriend in 4 years. His longest relationship since he was 28 is 6 months, and before that it was 8 years. So I'm not sure if he really knows how to be in a relationship. He said he's avoided it because of issues with his mum that have taken him a long time to come to terms with.
I really like this guy but I feel like I'll have to do a lot of the running even though he seems to like me. But surely, if he was that interested, he'd be texting and ensuring that he asked me out again......?