Originally Posted by
ElizabethB
Just makes me wonder.
I know him for 3 years and we were more than friends even though he lives in another country for 2 years now.
He did hurt my feelings before with his pull and push game. One time he said he will never talk to me again, then showed up and wanted to see me like nothing happened.
I never got chance to ask him why he got back and I regret that.
Almost year after, everything went just fine.
Last time I heard from him we talked for an hour, chatted online for three. He actually told me he wants to see me again.
Everything was fine until I tried to call him for a week with no success.
It made me very worry because of his bad diabetes. I sent him message if he is ok twice. No reply. After that, I just asked him if he is mad at me, or if there is something I did or didn’t do.
I wished him Merry Christmas and he replied back couple days later. Nothing about him, just Christmas wish.
Since then, I did not try anything. It hurts me so much not to know what happened, what I possibly did.
I would rather take slap in my face by saying I don’t like you anymore, I don’t want to hear from you, I hate you, than getting his ignorance and silence.
He always said “you know me more than anybody else”. He shared so much with me and now I am not even worth his honesty??? I don’t get it. I would never treat someone this way, not even my enemy. Who actually does that? Why do you let someone worry sick about you? He knows how I feel about him and how much it hurts me. Why does he do that??? It is killing me inside... What can I do? How to confront him?