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Me alone
Hi,
basically we have been together for 7 years. On the 3rd year he cheated on me, and after 6 months apart i decided to get back to him. and we were happy again. I actually really managed to forget about it then.
we were happy again until a year ago. Feels like 3 years is our limit!
we went to my parents house, and he opened a dating website profile. He was going to be alone for about 10 days as i was going to be with my parents.
he said he only did it to have a look and so on. I dont believe, but i think that people make mistakes, and being cheated on is not the end of the world. but waht i am trying to do is to understand him. as now, he cries and wants me back no matter what. I have left home 1 year ago and he texts me every day for the past 6 months. We have met a few times, but no kisses or anything like that, i just met him (as he insisted) because i legitemaly miss him. (as we have lived together fo over 6 years).
what i dont understand is. why he wants me, and when he has me he seems bored.. for example:
he drinks a few beear every evening (so he is a bit slow as a company... as i love gym and outdoors)
he plays playstation every single day (i never minded as I am always on a mission, i have my own business, i have learned 3 languages by myself.. have studied music all while he was on palystation)... but i feel that now, if i invite him to do something else, he goes, but kind of counting the minutes to get bakc to his games.
he also sokes weed kind of three times a week
I havent moved on. but i also dont want to go back. but i would like to understando what goes on in his mind to be contacting me so much?