Well ive been with my girlfriend for 4.5 yrs and for that time she has never been faithfull. it all started about a year into the relationship she went on a family trip and while she was away some slept with her cousins friend tom. When she came back from the trip she called called tom behind my back told him she was single and started a long distance relationship with him. I found out and confronted her and she eventally told me everything, we had a bit of space and I forgave her but I started checkin her phone from there on. I later found out that while we had space she had slept witg someone else and that even before she slept with tom she had giving a guy friend a blow job. We both went in threapy but she only did a few sessions and I forgave her. In the third and forth year of are relationship other things happened she msged other guys flurted, kissed, sent sexy photos, did hand stuff with some other guys and I never found out until I confronted her and trapped her in telling me what was goin on. Know weve been together 4.5 yrs and I have asked her whats going on and threated to leave if she doesnr tell me. I have found out in the last few months she has joined a dating site and has slept with a few more guys shes not sure how many or just wont tell me and she gave another guy a blow job and kissed one or two more guys. I have told her we need space and that we might break up she believes me because she packed up her clothes. I dont know what to do I know this relationship.isnt working because of all this pbut I love her very much and I know she does truely love me. She has a lot of problems, with herself cofidence and issues with her dad and family she sees herself as useless and wothless she has talked bout killing herself even b4 all the cheating. I just dont know what to do I know I deserve better but I cannot see a world were shes not in my life.
In summery she has slept with 5 or six guys and did hand stuff with another 5 guys, and msged/flurted with them or some other guys on the phone.