woods, I do feel like he is lacking the confidence on getting a job. I noticed he puts himself down before applying and he doesn't want to apply if he's going to get rejected.
He cried to me yesterday about the job situation and I told him he's too hard on himself and that he's a smart guy. I tell him with so many applications filled out you're bound to get a job interview.
I've also mentioned that he should consider going back to school since he has free time but this isn't what he wants. He doesn't know what he wants to do in life and i'm trying to help him figure that out.
Cerby, I've tried telling him before that I'm feeling smothered and need to find my own place but my boyfriend freaked out.
I don't like his parents because they are doing nothing to motivate my boyfriend since they support him. His parents can't support him forever and his parents need to teach him that.
They told him this year to re-file for unemployment when really they should be advising him to get a job.
I want his parents to al least stop buying him cigarettes. If he can't support his habit he shouldn't smoke.
I've been wanting to speak to them about this but I don't know how or when to bring it up.
I honestly feel like he's never going to move out of his parent's house since he's pretty much set there which isn't what I want.