Hi, so this will my first post in a forum. So, practically, I first met this girl in my University and she's doing her foundation and I am doing my degree. After that, I saw her once in the cafeteria and once in the library. Somehow, I am sure she's the one I am looking for after all these years. Well, yes, I had fallen in love a couple of times with different girls, and gotten into a puppy love once when I was in Form 5, but I have never been so excited and sure about a girl. I added her on Facebook due to a dumb advise by a guy friend, and she ignore my request so far. I am a very shy guy, but after falling for her, I felt confident for once and am ready to go and introduce myself to her and get her number. Currently I am waiting for the right moment.
I have been rehearsing the scenario for a few times(I know it sounds silly but I need to make myself be brave as I have never done this before :/). As she often hangs around with her group of girlfriends, so, here's what I am going to tell her:
"Erm.. Excuse me. Hi! I was wondering I could borrow your friend here(point at her) for just few minutes, I promise to return her safely to you girls later. Just a short one two minutes, please?"(Smiling to the group)
And when the rest of the girls give us some free time, I would say:
"Hi. I hope I am not scaring you, because it's my first time also, but I told myself if I missed this chance to know a pretty girl like you, I will regret. So, I was wondering if you can give me a chance to know you. My name is ____. (Hold my hand out to her and wait for her response) I wish to stay around and chat with you, but I promise your friends I only occupied you for a couple of minutes, so do you mind giving me your contact number so we can keep in touch?" (Smile to her)
So is this appropriate? If you are her, what will you feel and what will be your response? I hope you can help me with this so I roughly can have a mental preparation no matter its a rejection or a success.
Thanks!![]()