Please tell me this girl is not worth any more of my time (break up within)

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Hi everyone.

Long story short, I met a girl I thought was brilliant, we got together very quick and everything was great for 3 months.

It was really sweet, not one argument, no signs of anything being bad, and then suddenly, I was dumped.

She went back to her home country (Sweden) for one month, during which we emailed every day except 2 when she had no internet. We had made plans for the summer where I was going to go to her hometown for a month to meet her parents. We both live in the UK, her in London and me around 1 hour away, so it's not exactly long distance as it was very easy to get to each other.

Anyhoo, when she arrived back in the UK she texted me saying she was so happy she can text me anytime again, and we spoke as normal. 2 days later she came online to chat to me and I was dumped.

Her reasoning was that university was starting soon (which she knew about months before) and she would be too busy, then she thanked me for lovely times together. I asked if we can at least wait and see how it is after university starts but she refused and wouldn't meet me half way or even quarter way.

After this I said that since we love each other (it had been said quite a lot, even just a week before all of this) we should at least try things and see how it is when university starts, then she just said I don't love you, and I don't want it. I felt extremely hurt after this and blurted out that she isn't nice at all, to this she just replied "It's ok your feelings changed" and that was the end of the conversation. I impulsively blocked her on Facebook and then regretted it, so I unblocked her but I was blocked in response by her on there anyway. (I only did this because I knew seeing her on there moving on, in my search results, and such, would make me feel terrible)

So I messaged on Skype asking to talk and she just blocked me there too instead of replying. After texting all I got was "I don't want, you blocked me on Facebook, our story is over, this is the last text." and that's the last I heard from her, this was in April 2012.

Now am I right in thinking that this behaviour is pretty damn cruel? It was seriously out of nowhere, I had just bought her a gift that month and never got to give it her. We had been making plans for the future so it wasn't expected to be short term. I can't believe the university reasoning had much ground to it because she knew about it way before, and it doesn't explain her suddenly not loving me and that we were making future plans. I even helped her study for university entrance tests!

All my friends told me she's horrible, and I want to believe that, I really do, but I keep telling myself I'm only saying this because it's over. I really liked my time with her and I keep thinking of the way things used to be and it makes me want to get in contact, even though I've tried numerous times (I even made a new Facebook account) and I either get ignored or instantly blocked, I haven't heard a peep from her. I know I've already bothered her a few times so I don't want to do it anymore.

I'm mostly over it, really, just when I think of when I was with her I forget how cruel she was that night and how out of the blue it was, and it makes me want to get in touch. I haven't said anything to her in a while but I think I'm starting to crack and it'd really help if any of you think people who suddenly discard people like this aren't worth our time.

I believe most of this comes from not being too confident and worrying I won't meet anyone else who will like me, I know it sounds dumb and a lot of people think that, but it just sticks in my mind at times.