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    Cheating

    I have cheated my girlfriend thrice...
    I hav understood my mistake and I am really very guilty about it..
    Our family knows about us...
    I reall y love her a lot and I am ready to do anything for her...
    Weare still in realtionship,,..
    She is a fantastic woman...
    She is beenby my side always...
    But she is really very shocked and taken back...
    She cant resiprocate my love,,,..
    She cant just feel it...

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    You reap what you sow.

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    Give it time, but be prepared for the fact that you might have done too much damage.
    As a man thinketh, so is he.

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    I don't blame her, you were wrong, she has every right to not want to be with you anymore. and it happened 3 times? not like you can even try to get out of it and say it was a one time accident

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    She's there to punish you for what you did...this relationship needs to end.

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    Just give her time to get over the pain but as what WasLost said, be ready for whatever decision she will come up with. For the meantime, keep on showing that you still care.

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    Trust is extremely important... when somebody brakes that, is very hard to get it back. My boyfriend cheat on me, I found out in a very uncomfortable way. She call me at night, from his cell phone. I saw pictures, emails, chats were he flirt with her, and make certain plans to see each other, he paid for her things, while he complain about money with me. Even, when I said " lets try again", it really didn't work out. I make his life miserable, and my life miserable. I couldn't manage to smile, or feel safe anymore. Is an awful feeling, that the person you love, betrayed you in such a horrible way. Meaning, you should not try to save anything, she is never never going to trust you again, as much as she tries, is impossible. he did it once, you did it more than once... let her go... and move on...

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    Yup been there too. Nothing was ever the same, and I eventually just wanted out.
    Last edited by smackie9; 24-01-13 at 11:09 AM.

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    If its happened three times you need to ask yourself why? Your relationship is obviously lacking something which you are seeking, and therefore in the long run, I'm afraid it isn't going to last. Sorry.

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