The art of conflict, how does it work?

[phoenixcinder]

Conflict, seems to be an inevitable part of a relationship.

Unfortunately I have a visceral fear of any form of conflict. Afraid of the consequence, the outcome, hurting the other. I do anything possible to dodge any form of conflict.

Due to this any relationships I get into are doomed from the start.

What would you consider your most effective ways of conflict that have a win/win out come and doesn't involve raised voices or aggressive emotions.

[smackie9]

Dating is a tool to finding the right person. If you find yourself in conflict in every relationship you are in, that means one of two things.....your poor choice of who you date or you have issues of your own. Now figure it out which it is and fix it.

[smackie9]

Next learn good communication. You can't have a smooth running relationship without it.