Hey Everyone
I would like some advice please!!
About 2 years ago I got chatting to a girl through on line dating, we hit it off immediately. The only problem is she lives in Sheffield and i live in Bournemouth (240 miles) we decided the distance was going to be too much so we decided to to just remain friends, we added each other on Facebook, chatted loads over the couple of years via email, messenger and phone. We both admitted having to having a big attraction to each other (as much as you can without physically meeting), we came very close to meeting on a couple of occasions but one of us pulled out at the last minute.
Anyway this came to a head just before Christmas when she asked if she could come and stay with me for a couple of days, naturally i agreed, I had wanted to meet her from day one, she traveled to Bournemouth, stayed for 3 days and we had the most amazing time. She left and went home and both spent Christmas with our families, texting all the time, she then called me to ask what I was doing over new year!! I had nothing really planned and she asked whether she could spend it with me, was very excited and again said yes. Again she traveled to mine and spent 3 days up until new years day and again it was an amazing time!! We talked about the future and whether we wanted to carry on seeing each other, both of us wanted this. Our situation was far from perfect I know, she has 3 children and i have 1 (mine doesn't live with me) but to be honest i had fallen for her big time and she said she was feeling the same way!!
Then about a 10 days ago she went a bit weird with me, informed me she would never move and she didn't want a long distance relationship, it got a bit heated as emotions have been running high and deleted me of Facebook and blocked me, I in haste deleted her number so all i had left was an email address for her, I've tried contacting her on several occasions now but nothing, even sent her a message from a friends Facebook page asking her to get in touch but nothing!
Sorry for being a long story but trying to give you the background behind it!! Now do i give up? I can't believe she's gone from having feelings for me to nothing and being ice cold in days!! Or have i been totally taken in? Why won't she talk to me? I'm very confused and hurt!! Personally I think she has got scared and the barriers have come up to protect herself!! Do i give up or fight for her??
Advice please, Stu