unfulfilled Feelings

[lostinme]

I am hoping someone here can give me a little insight. I have been divorced for 5 years. I have been on many dates in that time and had a couple more serious relationships. I have been in a relationship off and on for the past 14 months. We are at the point she wants more of a commitment out of me and I do not think I can give it to her. I enjoy being with my girl friend in all ways but I can not help having that unfulfilled feeling with her. She tries very hard to please me and she does, but I just don't ever feel satisfied inside, I feel a void even when we are together and that emptiness inside of me eats at me even when I am happy. I am not sure if that is telling me she is not the one, or is it me just being some kind of selfish jerk. I want to make her happy and fulfilled in her life but I just feel something is missing and I can not figure out what it is. I get this same empty feeling in all the relationships I am in and just can not seem to get to a happy completely full filled place with anyone. I am just looking for some insight here maybe someone else has gone through this and can help me with my problem.

Thank you

[Boisdevie]

She's more into you than you're into her. Happens all the time. Doesn't make you a git or some saddo. Just be honest with her.

[dem862]

I get this same empty feeling in all the relationships I am in and just can not seem to get to a happy completely full filled place with anyone. I am just looking for some insight here maybe someone else has gone through this and can help me with my problem.

Don't depend on a partner to make you happy or fulfilled. A relationship is only part of life. My first impression is that you are dissatisfied with your life in general and you are blaming your relationship for it. Maybe you need to be single for a while and create a life that makes you happy, so you can share that with another person.