Extremely attractive guy at my school

[Love'sReject]

That's because you like him; you're blinded by how attractive he is and he seems to be really suave, which are signs of sociopaths/manwhores.

[Butterfly_96]

There's nothing that says he necessarily has to be a "sociopath" though, and that's really jumping to conclusions and accusations really quickly, don't you think? =P
I have only seen kind sides of him so far, and he seems to have a very good reputation as well - only he is clearly not intimidated by his admirers at all and does that butt-spanking and stuff as a joke, and they certainly don't seem to have anything against it either.

So, well, I really want to charm him in some way without just becoming one in the crowd.

[smackie9]

You have to have a lot of experience with manipulating guys. It's a learned art. good luck with that.

[Butterfly_96]

You have to have a lot of experience with manipulating guys. It's a learned art. good luck with that.

I don't want to manipulate him, I just want to make him feel interested in me in the best way.

[basilandthyme]

Call it what you want, you'd need to be very experienced and very confident to make yourself stand out above all the other girls he has. Hon, this would be nigh near impossible for most girls to achieve.....let alone a girl who can only blush if he looks her way.

Come back down to reality and look at the boys who you have an actual chance with.

[Butterfly_96]

Well I don't know, sometimes it feels like he is being hit on by a girl at school and then she drags him home and offers him sex.
I get that impression sometimes, since girls he doesn't even know have gone with him after school several times.

[Love'sReject]

What is it that you even want from the guy? to date? possible relationship?

[Butterfly_96]

What is it that you even want from the guy? to date? possible relationship?

Both, but it's hard since he is always getting attention from other girls.

[Love'sReject]

Are you ruling out **** buddy? Because honestly, most guys if they were in his situation would not look to date or enter a relationship when they can avoid it.

[basilandthyme]

And why would he want to settle down with you when he's got a veritable smorgasboard to choose from?

[Butterfly_96]

And why would he want to settle down with you when he's got a veritable smorgasboard to choose from?

I don't know, I just hope he would.

But really, is it really so easy for him that he is basically approached and hit on by girls without making any effort himself and then gets free sex just like that?

[Love'sReject]

YES. You gals sure are shallow creatures, so it is extremely probable.

[Butterfly_96]

YES. You gals sure are shallow creatures, so it is extremely probable.

Eh, well that would explain why he dares to slap their bottom as a prank and check out their breasts and tummy while they notice it, he probably knows that it's taken as a major compliment or something.

[basilandthyme]

I don't know, I just hope he would.

That's called dreaming.

But really, is it really so easy for him that he is basically approached and hit on by girls without making any effort himself and then gets free sex just like that?

Yes, it really is that easy. Just think, you're doing similar to the other girls. You aren't waiting for him to make an effort to approach you. Instead, you're looking at ways to draw his attention. This guy doesn't need to do anything but wait and have it all handed to him on a platter.

[basilandthyme]

Eh, well that would explain why he dares to slap their bottom as a prank and check out their breasts while they notice it, he probably knows that it's taken as a major compliment or something.

[shallow creatures] And it also explains why you're desperate to get a guy who you know little about. You are just as attracted to his looks as they are.