Hi everyone. My question is about my brother, and we are not very close anymore.
My brother has always wanted to retire early. When he reached his age of "retirement", he decided instead to quit his full time job and begin his own business. At the same time, he was dating a girl he had recently met. Over the first year of their dating it was very casual, and his business was doing OK but not great. He decided to move in with his girlfriend, and his business was not doing well at the time. He was getting very little work. In spite of this they got engaged and married a few months ago. Since his marriage, he has connected with a group that has given him a great amount of networking and he has seen business increase at his company. His wife is very successful in her field, and makes a very good salary.
My question is this - do you think his wife/family was the driving force in his decision to hookup with this group that has provided him some success of late? Prior to that, he was not interested in drumming up business on his own - he wanted to generate business on referrels. Do you think it was feeling "less than" to a wife that made more money than him? Or do you think she pressured him to get going on his business or give it up? I don't know her very well because we live out of town, and my brother and I aren't close anymore, but his choices - getting engaged without being on solid footing, etc. - have concerned my family and myself. We are glad he is doing well now, but hope he is also pursuing his dreams in the way he wants.