Help I am going crazy !!!

[ChelseaLondon]

It has come to this ... I a actually turning to a Forum for advice on my love life.

I met this guy on a party last spring, he is a friend of a friend and we hit it off right away ! We really clicked.

So I added him on FB and we started to talk for a bit but we did not get to meet until another party one month
later, then we kissed. A couple of weeks later we had a date and after THAT he really started to show interest
and we met the day after that.

One problem .. I was moving to London a couple of days later and he was supposed to go to Asia to study.
So I left for London but I went back to our country not far from there some weeks later to meet him once more
before he moved. The first two months of his stay in Asia, we had contact over Facebook, chatting. We were
in the same boat and talked about everything. All tho, the more he got into his life there, the less he spoke to
me and for three months I didn't hear anything and I didn't contact him, since I did not want to be pushy.

He is an in the moment kind of guy and very genuin so he doesn't play games. But still, HE'S WINNING.
I can't get my closure, knowing he had the last word. I sent him a link a week ago for him to vote for me
on a poll I was nominated to (I did it with all my fb friends) - and asked also how he was doing.

He answered a week later with no questions, just 'hello, I'm fine, take care' like that. So again, he's
got the last word and Im standing here, thinking about him all the time and will not see him for another
six months, where I know, if he's single, he will want to hook up again.

How do I get over this guy for now? I answered his email and he has seen it and again .. wont answer.
This guy is driving me insane. What should I do to get a closure and feel calm again?

[basilandthyme]

To get over him, I guess you just have to accept that he's not into you. That he's moved on.

Why do you think that he'll call you when he gets back?

[ChelseaLondon]

I understood that those kind of answers would come. It is so hard to discuss feelings for someone you know and a situation to people that you don't know.
It's a feeling that if we spend next summer together we are going to hook up again if we're both single, I know it. As said, we really click.
As friends as well. I do not necessarily see him as a future bf - I just want to forget about him until we see eachother again. Maybe he's not thinking about me now and that is fine. I just do not want to be left hanging, feeling I put myself out there on FB. Ofc I get he could totally be 'over' me but we never got to that point really. We both knew we'd go. Kinda answering my own question here really. I just have to patient and enjoy my time here and let him be for now. But it's hard