What does he have to think about it if a girl asks him out? That's such a player thing..A guy always knows whether or not he'd go out with a girl, I don't see what he could possibly have to meditate on unless he's trying to build up her anticipation and try to coax her into doing more than she originally would have wanted.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.