My Gf broke up with me

[Cbanks]

Ok this is my first time posting. My girlfriend and I split up about 3 weeks ago , for about the first 2 weeks I was doing all the begging and pleading to get her back, that obviously didn't work . So I was going to do the 30 day no contact I made it 2 days and it was absolutely killing me . But she contacts me that day and tells me she is pregnant and she is keeping it but she's still not sure about us. Well with this news I'm back to the begging and pleading . Well my ? Is should I do the no contact rule now? If not any advise would b helpful .

[surfhb2]

No contact rule? Good luck with no contact when you'll be paying child support payments. Good luck!

[rob1984]

hey man, the begging is what gives her ammunition.. and who the hell told you about a 30 day no contact rule. sounds so stupid.. sit her down and communicate. Respect her decision for leaving its her right too,but ask for a reason. Be mature you have a kid involved now, women want a leader some they feel can support them.. i know i learned the hard way.

[basilandthyme]

I find it all a bit too coincidental. What are the odds of her actually being pregnant? What contraception were you using? Does she have a history of lying or dramatic behaviour?

[LoveDocJon]

Honestly I don't even have anything to say here but you have to talk with her and figure this baby thing out. I usually go into the begging thing and would otherwise tell you that you're making a fool of yourself, but this baby is a higher priority. You're really in a tight spot here, but this baby has to come before yourself.