I moved on very quickly after leaving my ex-husband. But it wasn't because I was cheating. It was because I really had absolutely nothing left in the way of feelings for my ex. I really didn't care anymore. Being out of the relationship was like "Hello world, I'm out here and ready to live again!!!" After a few miserable years, I wasn't going to waste time navel gazing or being sad about it.
I also wonder what your dating faux pas were. If they were bad enough, they could well have driven him away and he's now not wanting to look back. Don't ever make the mistake of thinking that a relationship is strong enough to survive bad behaviour. A good relationship needs good behaviour to keep it healthy.
As far as men looking back after the dust has settled, I doubt it. But for what it's worth, I can't imagine a woman going backwards either.
Last edited by basilandthyme; 03-02-13 at 02:13 PM.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.