So i broke up with my ex girlfriend in October over some family issues that I was having and it was the biggest mistake I ever made.
I sorted out my issues resulting in me disowning a lot of my family and emailed my ex at e end of December explaining everything and telling her I still loved her and wanted her back. She replied (cuz she wouldn't see me) to tell me we can be friends but only in time, besides she's started seeing someone else around Christmas time and its everything we weren't. We were together for 5 years and she been with this new guy for a month now. I've purposely given her space and time but told her I wouldn't give up and sent her a couple of friendly texts but had no reply, and she blocked,unblocked, and blocked me on Facebook which really confuses me.
My friends all say to give it time and that the new guy is a rebound, but have known each other for ages, are local to each other and have lots of many mutual friends. I can't stop thinking about her, I'm constantly trying to find out what she's up to, where she is and if she's with him.
I don't wanna give it time, because I have a plan for moving forward and the more time means the closer they could get as a couple but I don't want to pressure her because she'll be gone forever.
I need advice please.