ok here goes..
my ex and i broke up around xmas time but things had been on and off since october. been friends for quite a while but in relationship for almost a year.
he wanted to stay friends....we were friends before the relationship and kind of fell into a relationship which took as both by suprise i think.
so since xmas we have been going round in circles. friends/arguing/silence for a week/friends again.
i admit i often start the argument by bringing up "us" and what went wrong.he then blames me and says if i wasnt so childish and effed it up then everything would have been fine..but thats why i bring it upcos i feel it wouldnt have been "fine".
my question is...if we are over and he doesnt want me back (he has said this) then why argue with me? ive told him to just delete me and walk away...he wont. he then acts hurt by the arguing and puts social network status such as "really p****d off" etc. then after a week or few days of silence he will text me with something funny or light hearted.
i just dont understand whats going on so any help be great!