It is my first time dating. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now, and we have never fought. We are open and I always stress that communication is important. Recently she has made friends with this other boy named Steve. Steve is part of her social club and they always hang out when I am not with her. He seems like a cool guy, and even has his own girlfriend. However, it bugs me that Steve is always with her when I am gone... I do trust my girlfriend and she told me not to worry and that I am the only one, however, today I found out that Steve is going to sleep over at her house. She promised me that he will not be in the same room as her when he crashes. I am just worried because I am afraid that Steve wants to hit on her.
Here are my questions;
1) Is it natural for me to be jealous of the attention Steve is getting?
2) What is the right way to react when she just considers him a best friend?
3) What would you do in my situation?