Here is an article I wrote a while ago and posted on my website.
How To Get My Ex Back Tips
So you have been depressed, sad, lonely lately and going crazy thinking how do, "I can get my ex back"? Here are a few proven tips that will help you get on the way to getting your ex back! I learned these skills from a great book I read, called the Magic of Making up . If you follow these tips below, I guarantee you will be successful in getting your ex back.
I know for a fact that lots of broken relationships are reversible, if you learn the right steps to take. So stop wondering, will I get my ex back and start learning the correct steps to take and take action.
Step 1 to Get My Ex Back
You broke up with your ex for a reason. First you need to calm yourself down, take a deep breath and relax. I know it is very hard to do, because you are probably, depressed, unmotivated, and cannot function properly.
But getting control of yourself is one of the most important thing you can do. You have to take every thought captive before you start action, because we are creatures of habit and thoughts create action. Pray, ask God for wisdom, meditate, and have self discipline.
Step 2 to Get My Ex Back
You have to resist contacting your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend. Do not call them or go crazy text messaging nonstop. Don't tell them you love them or can't live without them thousands of times.
It will not work. No one likes to get smothered.
You need to concentrate in building yourself back up, by making yourself more attractive to your ex, in order to get your ex back. Start reading some books, working out, and by some new clothes.
You need to make your ex want you back by missing you and realizing what they are missing without you.
I know what you are thinking. Well if I give them space, they will find someone else right away and they will stop loving me. No, you are wrong!!
That is what most people think, but the reality of the matter is that you don't just forget your ex girlfriend or boyfriend that quick no matter how bad the relationship was. It takes time.
Even if they find someone else, they will always compare them to their ex and will constantly think about their ex until lots of time has passed. That is a fact!
Step 3 to Get My Ex Back
So, what should I do to really get my ex back? Well, this is where you come in with the right methods once you are calm, cool, collective, and strong again. Now you gave your ex some space and made him or her miss you.
One method is writing a letter. Writing a love letter is one of the most thoughtful and sweet way to get your ex back. There is a lot of thought in writing a special love letter and lots of people do not do it any more.
It is better than calling and spitting your heart out because with a letter, you can take your time in being honest and choosing the right words to write. They can read it over and over and you can actually touch their heart.
So be patient in getting your ex back. It does not work right, right, right away, but with the right tactics, it will work like a charm. I have helped mentor lots of people get their ex back.