I think I'm in love

[DeanW]

Dont know how this happened, I know her like a 1 year and half, always friends, but now, Im single, she is single, and we got closer, but i was like "its just friendship" but now i cant control myself. We had a nice evening the other night, we spent the night together, and im freaking out because i miss her, and i just want her here, how the hell did this happen? I have an immense urge to call her, but i dont if it's the best thing to do. I just wanted to let this out. Dont know what to do, and of course im not going to tell her how i feel...

[JoeyJR]

simple.

take her out on a date.

flirt with her,some kino, etc if she flirts back etc then your golden.. if not... NEXT!!

[DeanW]

simple.

take her out on a date.

flirt with her,some kino, etc if she flirts back etc then your golden.. if not... NEXT!!

Already did that, i think she likes me, or she doesnt im so confused, wasnt supposed to happen, we work together.. hate when she doesnt text me.

[michelle23]

Gk for it is what have u got to lose. If u are spending one on one alone time then she prob feels the same. Just do it and good luck

[DeanW]

Gk for it is what have u got to lose. If u are spending one on one alone time then she prob feels the same. Just do it and good luck

I have her friendship to lose, i dont think I can date anyone right now, and she is kinda incredible. I wasnt expecting this right now, love hurts.

[DeanW]

I finally bursted out, told her, kinda, well, I guess she is not into me. Got a little bit upset, I kinda like her, we had a nice time together, she likes someone else. And now, the healing begins, I hope. Thanks anyway.

EDIT: I felt good after telling her.

[rob1984]

give it time bro, she could have said things to put up a defense wall... she's probably pondering about it and at some point you will get a clear answer. Good luck buddy.. if you love her that much never give up.

[Tommaso]

That's the main issue with love.
Its pain is far stronger than its joy.

Good luck, all the best
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I have her friendship to lose, i dont think I can date anyone right now, and she is kinda incredible. I wasnt expecting this right now, love hurts.

[DeanW]

Update on the thread, if someone is interested, just needed to vent.

It got strange, after i told her that i was kinda liking her. Later at night i went to talk to her, and explained what i was feeling, and that I'm not a guy that sleeps randomly with girls. I dont know, sometimes i think this is bad for me...

Anyways, next 3 days was normal, but, 2 days ago she left me hanging, i was going to give her a ride. I asked her "is it worth waiting for you?" she said yes, i replied "ok, but IS IT WORTH waiting for you" she said "wait for me yes"i waited 1 hour, then she comes and says "Didnt look at the time"...ok, fine. Then she told me she had to go home. I was like "...i waited 1 hour for you, you could have told me". Left her at home, next day i was pretty pissed.

But now, im am feeling like an immature prick. I have friends, i know people like me, but the fact is, im not comfortable sometimes with myself, and when I am uncomfortable with myself i get mad, inside, and explode, and now i dont know what the hell im talking about, she hasnt texted me, i dont text her, i know she doesnt like me that way, but i never wanted to be her boyfriend, i just like being with her, feels kinda lonely inside when someone doesnt want to be with you.

Oh well.