If you want to believe that, I can't make you change your mind. But consider this paradox instead. You are all talking about true love being impossible without sex. But if a man, for the sake of love, cannot excercise some will and wait for sex, then what kind of love is that?
A person who is truly in love, for years, is content with just having a chance to see a person that he is in love with. I am talking about true love of course not just "finding someone hot and doable".