Friend problem

[searock]

I agree, it's not love, it's obsession.

[someguy221]

I do not know whether it is an obsession or not.
What I disagree with is that I do not want to let go. I have no idea where you got that idea. I was very particular about cutting off all contact with this person when it ended. It is only circumstances which brought us together again. Maybe I was naive to let it happen but I did not want to drop a class (or let my academics be affected) by this affair. I now know that that is not possible and have cut off all contact once again. I was quite happy when we were apart for 6 months and look forward to reaching that state of mind again.

[someguy221]

You couldn't be more wrong about the tree climbing with a binocular bit.

[smackie9]

What I disagree with is that I do not want to let go. I have no idea where you got that idea.

Lets refer back to your post #8
"At the moment, my concern is how to get my friend back."

You were apart for 6 bloody months! Most people would have already have moved on....you are here talking about, and why? because you won't let it go. D-E-N-I-A-L

[someguy221]

You are right. I thought she was just acting funny, but now I know that is not the case. So gotta move on.

I don't know what the point of discussing this is. If you don't believe me, then too bad.

[smackie9]

You are clinging onto hope.....

[someguy221]

Right. I'll humor you though I have no idea why I'd do that.
This thread has evolved and so has my position. At first I thought the person just needed time to be themselves again. I was wrong. And it is obvious to me that that is not cool with me. Call that obsessive or whatever. But I realize what I need to do is to keep my interaction to with that person to a minimum and I am doing exactly that.

[smackie9]

You are in uni...there are so many girls all around you.....your chances of meeting someone nice are pretty high.

[someguy221]

I know that. Thank you.

[smackie9]

Well I see a smile there that means you are thinking about it, but I say you should take advantage of it asap.

[someguy221]

Thank you for the concern smackie. It is most...comforting..

[rob1984]

someguy221, get your ass off the couch.. and start macking on them girls.. go up to a girl and say ` I just spent 6 months obsessing over a girl, imagine how much attention I would give your lady parts for 10 minutes ` haha jk but yeah get out there.

[someguy221]

Hahahaha thanks Rob. I shall do that to my books instead.