Hello,
I have recently started dating a girl +3months. Its a long distance relationship currently because of my job. But I drive up to visit her every other week and we talk everyday.. sometimes for well over an hour and a half. I waited quite a long time to just get a date with the girl (Timing can be everything.) Since we've started dating she has changed her mind of initmacy... Specifically sex.
In the past she has slept with numerous guys, but since I've come along she has changed her mind and wants to wait. She isn't specific as to how long she wants to wait but rather "whene it feels right." Claiming she has many regrets from things shes done in the past. For me this is extremely frustrating. Most if not all of the guys she has dated in the past would have slept with her by now. To me, it feels like she is just playing me. It has been very difficult for me to deal with this, I have tried talking to her about it but she just tells me, "Your a good looking guy, you can go out and find another girl that will give you that." Basically saying I should dump her?
I don't want to make it out like this is all I want. She is wonderful... Treats me well, great conversationalist, and actually has a general interest in me. She is really my dream girl. But this.. I am unsure of how to handle it.
Thanks in advance for any advice.