I don't know what to do. . .

[retiredplayer]

I really like this woman. There's a few problems though. I'll list them.

1. She works for me.
2. Her boyfriend works for me.
3. I think she likes another guy.
4. Karma is out to get me.

Now, let me explain. This woman is gorgeous, funny, fun to be around, educated, confident, and just amazing all around. Her boyfriend treats her horrible. He calls her and her family trash, hit her, doesn't show her he cares, never even asks how she's doing or how her day was, and just completely beats her down emotionally. Her boyfriend has been out of town for a couple of months. She started coming over the past week and spending time with me. We had sex the other night. I am not sure if she really likes me though. I kind of think she just wanted a fling. Now, she also has this other guy - a good friend of hers. He's in the military and has some things going for him. Basically, seems like a great guy. She says he's just a friend. I don't know though. Up until three nights ago, I was just a friend. She seems to like him though. She gets all giggly when he texts her and texts him right back. Takes a while for her to text me though. Maybe I'm just reading into it too much. Karma is out to get me because of all the women I have hurt in the past. Intentionally or not, I've wronged a lot of women. It's all in the past though. I've grown up since my player days. She is everything I want in a woman, I have found. Oh yeah, by the way, she can't leave her boyfriend until November, "the lease is in his parents name and she doesn't want to leave them in a bind financially". It makes since, I guess. They have been together for a few years. Only makes since that she would be considerate of them. Maybe I'm not thinking into that enough. I don't know. I like her a lot. I get all happy when my phone rings, only to be disappointed when it's not her. What should I do?

[basilandthyme]

Stay well away. A woman who accepts abuse by one bloke and is sleeping with you and probably another is not good news. Nothing good can come of this.

[michelle23]

On the other hand-you are probably not going to get someone much better than that because of your past so I say go for it. You two can be just as bad as each other