Hi,
Okay, so my ex broke up with me almost a week ago. She says she still loves me and so on, but just cant handle a relationship right now (or with anyone, for that matter) because of the pressure she has to deal with (she constantly wants to know what i was doing, keep an eye one me etc.) and therefore the many fights we had to endure. Now, she also desperately wanted to stay friends. Now, i know thats not a great idea for me because theres no way to get over her if i keep in touch with her without all the benefits of a relationship. So at first i told her i didnt want to see her anymore, not in a rude way or anything, just told her it would be unbareable for me. Then she really cried her heart out because I've done a lot for her and told me she is so afraid of never seeing me again. Then, few days later she came to me to get the last stuff that went left behind at my appartment. We ended up talking about what to do about this situation and made each other laugh, and lied on the couch against each other. Not what you'd expect from a couple that just broke up. Then we said goodbye and good luck and it was over. Once she was gone i kinda went crazy and panicked, thinking i'd never see her again. So i called her and told her i changed my mind and wanted to keep seeing her as friends, really didnt know what to expect. We even planned for next week. This is not me, I normally cut it off and she'll probably miss me and text me. But this girl is really stubborn, so I suddenly convinced myself I really needed to stay in her life or its over for good. Also she's very attractive, so i was afraid she would forget about me in a minute because of the loads of attention she gets from other guys. Now at this moment I really don't know what to do. I'm thinking of telling her I changed my mind again and need to get over her so we better try not to see each other..
BTW, we been with eachother for just 3 months but somehow i grew strong feelings for her in such short time. Also it kind of occured she sort of moved in with me after 1 week.
Need assistence
sincerely dummie