Well, I have told him that I won't have sex with someone I'm not in a trusting relationship with.. I think why he might be getting confused/frustrated is because I've still been willing to do other things. I mean, I obviously hook up with him because I want to.. but I wonder now if it's really in my best interest at this point.
We've been texting on and off still, and he wished me a happy Valentine's day with a cute picture attached. It was nice, and he was stuck in the library all night for their big test on Monday, but I must say..I was a bit underwhelmed. Now my friend and the guy I set her up with at the ball have been talking. He even asked her to their med school ball at the beginning of March, but she can't go. Has my guy even mentioned said ball to me? Nope.
I'm going home again next weekend, and he knows this.. his friend made me convince my friend to come in town as well. So, I assume we'll all meet up downtown one night. Not ideal, obviously. If he doesn't ask me out on a legitimate date, then I'm not sure how I want to act towards him when I see him out, you know? Like I said before.. I can NOT let myself hook up with him again.
I mean, I've only known him since the beginning of the year..and spent time with him in person four times. With a shy, practical/cautious guy like him, is it too soon to rush him anyways? Maybe I'm expecting too much. As far as the long distance thing... he's incredibly busy during the week/most weekends, and I come home about every other weekend. So, it really works out well. Plus, I'll be done with school by the end of June (at the latest).