I met this guy online at yahoo and at the very first day he started liking me. Even though we had a webcam conversation and seen him and his pics, I wanted to take it slow, but he always said he loved me and would wait for me. The way he acted for the first few days, calling often, texting me saying he misses me all that really moved my heart. And i finally started falling for him. Initially we used to chat a lot and daily see each other on cam. I sometimes used to not pick his calls as i work from home and always be surrounded by family. One day he had a friends night out, so we had no evening web cam chat together, so wen we met next day morning I told him casually i had a good sleep last night...he might have felt little bad, but still we had web cam conversation like we used to everyday. And soon after the chat he said he was hungry and also needed to go somewhere. I ddint know but i felt little bad the way he rushed and ended the chat that day. I texted him and called him that evening many times but he neither did answer my calls nor returned. I really was worried and he didnt return my calls until the next noon when he was online from work. When i asked him about his not answering my calls he just simply said he slept for 15 hours and had a good sleep. And he also said that his cousin is going to stay at his place for a while and we would nt be able to chat like before on cam. So daily we used to chat online when he was at work and he also started not calling me or texting me much like he was before when we met. I could not understand his behaviour and one day sent him text saying that i didnt want to continue the relationship like this and want to end. He didnt come back that day but the next day he came online at work and said that he was being blackmailed by his neighbour woman to sleep with him. And that has been happening for more than 6 months then and he could nt say no to her as she threatened him that he was the one who was blackmailing her. I just got really confused with his story and broke up with him, but he kept calling and messaging for three continuous days and also said he was not keeping well. I gave him a chance to be in my life again and i dont knwo i did the right thing then. Ofcourse we never had web cam conversation since then and he still does nt call me or message me, its just online chat daily. In between i again stopped chatting him and tried to get away coz he was pushy on having physical relationship when we meet for the first time. But he came back promising that he would nt touch me until i wanted and want to meet me anyway like decided. Its been 3 months now and in 2 weeks he is gonna be at my place to see me. I dont know if i am making the right decision to meet him or even him to be in my life. I just need somebodys advice whethere or not its good to meet him personally. He also many a times said that he sees me as his soul mate and if everything goes well ...will introducec me to his family and also get engaged to me. I dont know wat to believe or not, but i reallyy need some big adivce which helps me figure out things. Thanks in advance.