Friendship or more

[Snow whiter]

So I have started talking to this guy, guy B who i haven't seen for 2 years. I have known him for 4 years in total now but it has only been now that i have chatted to him. Four yeas ago his friend guy A told me guy B liked me. at that time i thought it was a prank cos guy B said pysh!! but I still tried to get close to him. At the time I liked his friend guy A but for some reason i kept thinking about guy B at night and started liking him a lot but when I got close he ignored me. I think they all knew I liked the other guy A so he prob thought I was playing with him.

Anyways I made a Facebook a year ago and for a year I was hesitant to add him. I finally did two days ago at like 11pm at night. after the add i was soo suprised because 6 mins later he wrote hi on my wall and i started talking to him. I was suprised cos I thought he hated me..but we started Msging one another the next day. I keep thinking about him but idk if he likes me. Every time I ask him bout the past he says let's talk about the present. He also said tht he said some unnessary things back then and told me sorry. Idk If he's being a nice friend or has feelings for me. So help? And the thing is he doesn't rly start the convo. I mean he said hi when I added him and it went from there. he also asked me about colleges and sporta but afterwards if I replied with short answers or a smiley face he would not reply and wait until I said something else. I have spent the whole day talking to him about goals beliefs etc today. do u think he's being nice and going with the flow or sincerely wants to talk to me cos if he did why wouldn't he initiate the convo and ask questsions about me?? I feel like im the talkative one but he does reply with his thoughts and a lot of long answers but I feel like I want to know about him than he of me

And the thing is... It's been two years since i have seen him. I have changed a lot and I have my hair down and I'm suprised he still recognized me when I added him. It was just a short moment of the four years that i hung out with him and I didn't rly get to talk to him when I first met him so I was suprised when I did not see the who are you on my fb page..

And the thing is I want to continue talking to him but I know tomorrow if I dun start the convo he won't and I dun want to make it seem like I'm desperate or clingy.. Help?? I'm starting to think that maybe he's just nice and so he's replying to all my responses but does not have interest towards me so he won't initiate the convo

I also think he has never had a gf before. It's just weird because for the past two years I have seen guys looking at me and trying to get close to me and calling me cute but I have never experienced the same feeling he made me feel 4 years ago. Do you think it is unrequited love? Because I always thought that if a guy likes you he would do anything to get close but he hasn't.

I have never talked to someone and revealed so much of my life before. I can't sleep so I'm thinking so much and idk what to do because I have told him I liked him 4 yrs ago and at the time they all thought I liked guy A and he didn't say anything. I'm scared if I say something now ill just get a rejection and broken friendship. I also think that all his friends told him bad things about me because guy A heard tht I said I like u to guy B and called me a sl**. God I'm confused..

[Rowen]

Whoa....unrequited love? O.O Um...I don't think what you're describing is love- more like infatuation...

As for the guy (I think we're talking about Guy B?)...um...yeah, you're the friend. If he was talking about letting go of the past and focusing on the present, he obviously doesn't want to talk about what happened. More than that, he doesn't really talk to you. If he did want more from you, he would ask you questions- taken an interest in your life. He would ask casually if you're seeing anyone. He'd drop hints. Even the guy I'm pursuing doesn't really make himself a billboard of his emotions, but he talks to me and lets me know he cares.

Why not try talking to other guys? This sounds like a hell of a lot of un-needed drama.

[Snow whiter]

Why would u call it infatuated love and idk I dun feel like this towards other guys

[Snow whiter]

Right now I think I should delete him as a friend and go on with my life

[Rowen]

I would delete him and go on with your life.

And I mean no offense that it sounds like infatuation, but it seems to me like you two aren't that close.

[Snow whiter]

Yeah I see what you are saying. I'm just going to move away from this. I feel Like I got mysel into big trouble because I have all these feelings but if he rly liked me he would just say so. He wouldn't be beating around the bushes. Right now I am just restraining myself from talking to him. Well I think the main reason you feel tht we are not close is because the first time I met him I never felt anything towards him but as the days passed for some reason I got this attraction. I remember we were at this park with my other friends and idk I could not help but be happy to see I'm there. I saw him smile after seeing me too but when I tried being close to him he just ignored me. I know it's not love now because it wasn't gradual. We didn't know about each other before the attraction started. Thanks for helping me because I was very confused (:

[Rowen]

No problem! If you ever need to talk, you can PM me. I'm glad this site could help.

Honestly, though, when you experience love, the love for that person will never go away. It will be to the grave and beyond. Don't stop believing that it's out there.

[bearz]

Honestly, though, when you experience love, the love for that person will never go away. It will be to the grave and beyond. Don't stop believing that it's out there.

Very nicely said. You should put that in your sig.

[Rowen]

Thank you. Haha Maybe I might.