"Life is a banquet, and most poor bastards are starving to death." -- Auntie Mame
"Life is a banquet, and most poor bastards are starving to death." -- Auntie Mame
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
ROFL...
Yes, I agree with you, that quality in a girl should be admired, not changed. And yes, it is their strength, both, that they don't fall into this weakness, and also being able to provoke it in men.
But, not all men would react or are affected that way. So, this weakness does not apply to all, only to those who you probably wouldn't want it to apply to anyway.
.But, not all men would react or are affected that way. So, this weakness does not apply to all, only to those who you probably wouldn't want it to apply to anyway
I believe it applies to all healthy men before 50 or 55 even, It's the difference in manners and upbringing and beliefs about proper behaviour that makes some of them not express these things openly and others to not bother with any norms and tell exactly what's on their mind. And if you mean gay men, it's a different story, I still don't know if that's how they are born and something is different biologically with them or if something "environmental" caused them to become that way..
No, I was talking only about heterosexual males.
And not every male is girl crazy, or would jump in bed with as many girls as he can. Some males don't see the point of sex, or attraction if there is no emotional connection to the girl. Basically, it has to have an emotional meaning of some sort before the sex can mean something. It's very rare, but it does exist. And for those who see sex as an expression of love, it could be almost unpleasant, to have sex with someone who doesn't love them or whom they don't love. Would basically feel fake and animalistic.
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I was going to say they are going extinct, but didn't so as to give you hope, but you said it anyway...lol.
Those kinds of guys are far from going extinct; all this emo indie hipster pseudo-troubador shit is wussifying the general young male populace. These days, emo faggots slash their wrists because their crushes don't love them back.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
Wow, your description is basically that of most females. I don't imagine a man finding sex with a "hot" woman unpleasant just because he doesn't have an emotional connection with her.
Has it happened to you / do you think it would be unpleasant to you? Be honest please, I'm genuinely curious.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
Some men are attracted to virgins, others are not. Some people are super religious and others are not. It depends on the person really. Mature adults who are discussing sex and marriage are not emo whiny boys who want to assert their dominance and humiliate women. There is the young immature party sex, then there is maturity love and marriage. Personally I want to have sex and move in with a woman before I marry her, take a test drive before I commit if you will. But if she is a virgin and wants to wait until we are very serious I will respect that, but wont marry her until the relationship has progressed further. If she is waiting for religious reasons, than we wont work out anyways because I am not very religious.
Its goes the opposite way too, people ask for each others "numbers" and someone whos slept with an extraordinary number of partners is looked as a turn-off, but it seems with maturity, people begin to careless about that past and more about the present.
Yes, I've experienced it. That's how I know it's 100% possible.
Lovesreg, is way off on what we are talking about.
I'm not talking about being influenced by religion, or guilt.
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Because there is nothing empowering about basing your actions on whether or not something makes you similar to/better than men or sets you apart from them, a truly empowered and independent woman would just act naturally without thinking twice about whether or not it fits some arbitrary "miss independent" persona or gender role.
And on the flip side, what about women who want to have sex but feel the need to restrain themselves and repress their urges because they are told to do so by society? In the end, they have less sex than they want because they were told to by a social structure that claims it is not a feminine thing to do. How did submitting to coerced repression become a source of female pride?
I would also argue that gender pride is bullshit. If the fact that you happened to draw a random card out of the gene pool deck is your source of pride it means you need to accomplish more in your life. One more reason not to act based on thoughts like "what can I do to make me different from men so they don't seem better than women?"
1) Ever seen a Victoria's Secret commercial?Originally Posted by Fjortis
2) Are you implying that "person who loves sex" is the same as "ravenous, drooling mongrel with no self control", as if there is no way to differentiate between the two?