Don't know how to react

[adasd]

How did you get the link to this thread?? Did he put it up there?

No I had to find it after I saw you talking about there being another thread.

[adasd]

What? Who are you? Do not give her the link to this thread. I wrote on the other thread too calling her a cow but if Dabstar wants to put this link on that other website-he will. It is nobody elses business.

This is her PM to me
"This is my business, not yours - you've got no right to keep it from me."
I am not giving her link.

[michelle23]

Okay well please do not give this to anyone else especially not her. Dabstar has already made a decision and is not interested in speaking to her again as far as I know. He also said she can keep the ring so just forget it now.

He will do whatever he needs to do but there is no point causing more drama now for him.

How did you manage to find this? Thats crazy...

[Dabstar]

No I had to find it after I saw you talking about there being another thread.

How did you find it? I don't really care who sees this anymore, it's done as far as I'm concerned, but I'd prefer Cheryl to not see it for obvious reasons. Like I said yesterday, she can keep her ring... I'm done with it all.

[adasd]

I think you can get the ring back if you want,you can probably pretend to want her back and get her to come with ring then throw her out.

[michelle23]

She wont fall for it.

[adasd]

Worth a try

[adasd]

How did you find it? I don't really care who sees this anymore, it's done as far as I'm concerned, but I'd prefer Cheryl to not see it for obvious reasons. Like I said yesterday, she can keep her ring... I'm done with it all.

OK then .

[mo487]

I dont know the type of person that you are but me personally Id leave your place with copies of the forum left out. Then ruin them all

[Dabstar]

OK then .

People might think I'm a soft touch, but I wouldn't actually want to lead her on like that - that's not me. A couple of days ago I wanted revenge and for her to hurt like I do, but that was just being emotional. She acts like a pathetic little girl and I just want to wash my hands of the whole thing now. It'd have been nice for her to do the right thing but obviously that's not in her make up.

How did you find this thread though if no-one gave you a link? I only ask because hypothetically, Cheryl could do the same.

[mo487]

So i Kinda went through this thread and Ive got to say I applaud you for handling things the way you have. And everyone is right the best revenge is being happy. That wont happen for a long time but one day she'll see you for the man you are and hate herself for letting a better woman keep you for her own. you sir are the man

[pcmaster]

As I see it shes kind of women that takes the love. If someone offer the dick she will take it. If someone proposed she will take the ring. All women wana get married after all.

Best advice is - dont stay logged in.

[michelle23]

Lol most women want to get married for the right reasons pcm as do most men. We wont accept a ring offered by just anyone. Maybe some would but not all

[pcmaster]

In this case someone is 5 year old BF. Who knows maybe she would be married before but none of previous BFs did propose. Actually I think that ladies are making big deal out of mariage, like its some kind of big gift or life achievment, a thing to show of to friends etc.

For me it would be just a way to keep person in my life.

[michelle23]

The thought of getting married scares the hell outa me-even gives me anxiety as so many marriages end in an affair. I dont think any man is worth going through that pain for.. And i know if i get married my anxiety will remain except it will be a fear of divorce..