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    Masturbation.

    Why is it so many have to make it their business about their partner's private time and what they use to get off? IMO as long as it's not illegal (child porn or bestiality) It's really none of their business. Why do people feel they need to impose rules or boundaries on how their SO masturbates, what aids they use and how often is acceptable? Why would a person restrict masturbation just because they are in a relationship....to me that is asinine.

    Please no going off about porn addiction. This is just about an average habit.
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    I don't know, my best friend is this way about her fiance. they have sex regularly but she gets mad when she finds out he watches porn or masturbates and she always takes the viewpoint that this means he doesn't like having sex with her or it is wrong because he's in a relationship so why should he even be doing this? I always say... who cares? he's a guy, he's gonna want to jerk off. as long as you two are still having good sex what's the big deal?

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    Why is it so? Insecurity.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Only broads get pissed at this; a guy would think, "She masturbates? Niiice."
    Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.

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    ^^^ not all guys would think that... what about tassy's bf who didn't want her to use a vibrator?

    I agree that its insecurity and I think it's worse with the younger people who think that they should be enough to satisfy any sexual urges and when they find out they're not, it screws with their ego. Thing is that masturbation has nothing to do with them and is something that all animals (human or not) take part in.

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    I'm not familiar with this "Tassy" but her b/f sounds like a dickwad. Hell, most of us guys are shocked when we find out girls masturbate!
    Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.

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    Do a search and you'll find her thread.

    Anyway, I think any chickie who says something like "My boyfriend doesn't masturbate" has a boyfriend that hides it well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ashley89 View Post
    I don't know, my best friend is this way about her fiance. they have sex regularly but she gets mad when she finds out he watches porn or masturbates and she always takes the viewpoint that this means he doesn't like having sex with her or it is wrong because he's in a relationship so why should he even be doing this? I always say... who cares? he's a guy, he's gonna want to jerk off. as long as you two are still having good sex what's the big deal?
    In a nutshell - insecurity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post

    Anyway, I think any chickie who says something like "My boyfriend doesn't masturbate" has a boyfriend that hides it well.
    Lol. She's got problems if she acts as haughty about that.
    Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.

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    So, whose business should it be? It seems you treat your partner like a stranger. If you feel it's not his business to be interested in what you do sexually, then don't have sex with him. You clearly don't have a close connection with that person. You can't be close to him when it comes to sex, and then treat him like a stranger when it comes to other things. It's either he is close to you or he is not. There is no two ways about it. I don't know if you'll really understand what I mean by closeness, but if you don't have it, you'll never have a real relationship.

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    You're pretty ****ing nervy.

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    I think masturbatin is healthy and there is nothing wrong with it whether your in a relationship or not. I dont watch porn and neither does my bf. Were happy that way. I wouldnt mind watching it together sometimes if he wanted to but we have a very active, healthy sex life and neither of us feels as if we "need" it..

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    As he always says "we make our own porn"

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    I think its abit of cheating. But in reality when you have a girlfiend or boyfriend then masturbating is way to get off without pressure cause only person you have to make feel good is yourself.

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    Ya sometimes you just want a quick fix without the long sex session. I dont understand people who go mental if their bf has a wank in the shower. I know a girl who dumped her bf over that lol i just said to her "are you ****ing mad in the head or what" hahaha

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