Wow....sounds like another book to add to the 50 Shades of Grey Seriously.....your best option in my opinion is to start living your life for you and your soon to be bundle. Yes...Im saying you should keep this baby. Why? It was your choice to have unprotected sex, as for him....screw him being pissed because you got pregnant. He's just as much to blame. Another thing...do you think by telling her that it's going to benefit you in the long run? No....everyone gets hurt and he'll be pissed. Just don't keep going back to him because of the financial stability. You are a smart, intelligent, lady that deserves to be respected. I hear so many time from women, I will be number 2 but I will not be number 3. If you can't respect yourself enough to ditch this loser then you will forever be lost in a world with a man having complete control over you. For instance, My 33 yo sister has been seeing a married man for 5 years. She has cried herself to sleep at night wanting him to leave his wife because she loves him so much, even though he says he's unhappy and his kids are grown and out of the house...guess what? The harsh reality is that he will never leave his wife. He has no attachments at home keeping him there, yet he still stays and is unhappy? It just doesn't add up. I for one would not stay if I were unhappy. Unhappy is another excuse for him to keep playing the game and she falls for it. Why not have your side piece when you know you can? He's brain washing her, and it's sad and sickening to watch. Its no use in gaining knowledge behind the situation because your heart is already into it. Nothing good will ever become of this arrangement that you two have, except the love of a child that he will not give you. He's already shown that he doesn't love you. If he did he would be by your side and raising this child. I hope you take heed in what people are saying....it's tough being the other woman I assume and much harder when you have a pregnancy involved. You already know the answer or you would be here on this forum. Second guessing is usually our answer to what we already know. Falling in love is hard when someone doesn't reciprocate. I can't imagine what it is like in your case. Don't let him string you along. If he does leave his wife, what makes you think he won't cheat on you? The saying goes, If he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you....Keep your head up, move back home, face the reality that people are going to talk, and leave him be. Much luck to you!