My long distance boyfriend came to visit and stay with me at Christmas for about three weeks. He was a complete ass while here; asking strangers to sell him weed (which I don't smoke) and asking me for money to buy it cause he ran out, staying up until three am every night playing video games and not coming to bed with m- instead falling asleep on the couch, not wanting me to kiss him because of the "lipgloss (I) put on two hours ago" (which wasn't unusual for a woman), telling me to sit at the foot of the couch because I was always "all over him" and his stomach was full- only to call his dog onto his belly! We started to have sex one day- after a week and a half of not doing it- because I "was too noisy with my breathing and my daughter might hear" which I wasn't- and because his inguinal hernia was causing testicular pain. In the beginning of him initiated sex, we started and he suddenly pushed me off of him. I started to cry instantly cause it was so frustrating and offensive. I hadn't even been able to kiss him for over a week because it "might cause him to get an erection and could cause pain from his hernia". He asked what was wrong and I said I felt rejected. He said his dog was worried about me (while laying next to me) and wanted to comfort me. He got up and went downstairs to make breakfast....
When I finally dropped him off with his friend, he gave me a half hug goodbye. He called to make sure I made it home safe. I answered and said I did. I cut off contact for a few days. He texted asking if I was breaking it off and I said I felt like that was exactly what he wanted. He denied it but when I tried to call him one time after he never answered. He tried calling me a few weeks later but I was at work. I asked him to call again but he never did. I was so frustrated with the poor communication that I said if he couldn't call to please not text me anymore. Fast forward...j
Valentines Day he sends a card that says, "thinking of you... and wanting to wish you a happy valentines day"... no I love you or miss you or I was an idiot.. .and he just signed his name.
He isn't asking for me back- why send the card at all??? He was such a jerk to me. We did this long distance relationship for about a year and have known each other over two. We have even discussed marriage but nothing ever official. I just don't get it. Any ideas as to why he sent thecard or his bizarre behavior? We had always had a great sex life before and it was HIS IDEA to come here for Christmas....