Dating Co-workers

[Gamil]

My girlfriend broke up with me for one her some she works with. Any thoughts on dating co-workers?

[michelle23]

If she left you for him-forget out her. Shes not worth it. The chances of it turning into something lasting is 1%. Move on with your life and get over her and if she tries to come back say "you made your bed-go lie in it"

[Gamil]

That's true. Sadly we had a 6 year relationship. That's for the advice

[michelle23]

Thats sad. Im sorry. Some people have a very unhealthy way of ending a long term relationship and its cruel. She may also have insecurity issues "thinking the grass is greener" syndrome. And it rarely ever is greener.

It wasnt meant to be. Focus on yourself, take the time to heal, each day will get easier.

[Gamil]

Yah she I guess she thinks it is. She's tweeting how she's in love and how it's so "different" this time around. They have only been dating for no more then 2 months.

[Gamil]

And that's what I've been doing kind of off social networks now IG, Facebook , twitter all of them check them very rarely

[Love'sReject]

It's fine if both can act civilly after breaking up. Sometimes, work is the easiest or only way to meet someone to date.

[rob1984]

dude, take this time to be free. go out get some variety in you.. and you will find someone.. hell use the story of how bad she was, women are competitive and will comfort you, so they look better then you ex. It will work in your favour.

[Boisdevie]

I was in a relationship for 13 years. It ended. Relationships do.

[smackie9]

That is what happens with relationships at work. You see each other everyday, work closely together and interact socially. An emotional bond forms which can turn into lust. The emotional affair starts, the attention swoops in and becomes intoxicating to some to the point they want out of the relationship with their former gf/bf. I have seen this many times at my work. Marriages have even ended.

As for her "being so in love" she is just infactuated because it's new, the attention makes her feel special, attractive, may die out as fast as it started.....who knows. She could be chasing "that intense feeling" that does desolve after about 6 months to a year. It happens.

Anyways, you must feel just gutted with her prancing and praising her new found, whatever it is. You would be better off to stop looking at her activity and start adjusting to a new chapter in your life. Start finding things to do to take your mind off of it as best as you can. We all have been through heart break...it does get better. There will be a day this will be but a distant memory. Life and love goes on.

[Gamil]

Appreciate everyone's feed back