We dated for 4 months, broke up 2 months ago, no contact since. The break up itself was peaceful, but less than a week later it seemed he'd found another girlfriend, though I don't think this lasted. I think, like I'm 90% sure that I'm over the hurt of that and the break up, anything negative that remains is not feelings for him but my own on going lack of self esteem. Anyway, I really want to make the peace because when we first broke up he was in a pretty bad place emotionally, which is probably why he found this other girl so quickly, and we both promised to be friends. After I found about his new 'relationship" I deleted him off fb and have had no contact since. That was about 6-7 weeks ago. I did send him one text about 6 weeks ago just wishing him well which he never replied to. I really want to see him and just say hi and ask him how he is and be at peace with everything within myself. It's more about me than it is him. I miss his friendship but I think there's too much hurt there for us to be close even as friends again. We go to the same uni, both first years though I haven't yet seen him around. I'd like to just bump into him and say what I need to say but I don't know if that's going to happen and I don't want to wait for it, I want these feelings off my chest. I can't messeage him on fb without being friends because of his privacy settings, so should I just add him again and see how it goes? I don't really want a friendship, more of an acquaintance. I just simply want to make the peace, I want to stop having this conversation in my head and actually have it with him. It was the deepest relatonship and friendship I've ever had, I want to... pay respects to it, in a way, by not having him think that I never want to speak to him again. I've held back from trying to contact him because last time he didn't reply, but that could have just been too soon for him. I miss him, as a friend. I want to be able to ask how he is every now and then, maybe go for coffee if we're both on campus and have nothing to do. That kind of thing. Should I add him on fb or just hang out around the psychology department until I "accidently" bump into him? lol. thanks