First time posting for advice on here. I have been married for 4 months with being in a relationship with her for 5 years prior. She is the type of girl who believes men should only think about their SO for the rest of their lives. No Porn, masturbation, and so on. I want to say first of all, I do love my wife, find her very attractive and will never cheat. But I do need to take care of business few times a week on my own with the assistance of porn. It's quick and I don't have to go through the foreplay, act, and aftermath. Anyway few weeks ago she discovered I have been watching porn on some days, and declared I am cheating and wants a divorce. She even told my parents of this (terrible decision). She installed a filter on my computer to block this sort of content and states if I she catches me again, she will file for separation. I will answer this question right away, "Yes, she is insecure". There is no debating this, and I made my own bed by marrying her. Divorcing is not an option because I do love her. I also want to say the filter is not a problem as I have ten ways to bypass it. However this is going behind her back and I don't want to do that. I feel my only option is to get her to understand and accept it, but I feel that will be an impossible battle. I am also just venting a bit.