Old Topic of the great porn debate.

[michelle23]

Maybe if you can compromise by masturbating without porn? I have a feeling the porn is her issue-not you masturbating. Especially since she went to such lengths to block it on the computer. But she cant tie your hands around your neck.

[madotnw_nihs]

Weird thing is she was ok with Porn/masturbation before marriage, but didn't mention it's not ok after. She rationalize that once you are married, you shouldn't be doing it.

[michelle23]

Okay that is weird if she was okay with it before.. Not sure what else to say. You just need to talk and find a compromise I suppose.

[sssspanos]

Tragic situation. If you average 2-3 times a week with her then it seems your sex life is healthy... What you do with yourself is ok, the worst think to would be to start feel bad about it.... I would suggest you would start getting her also to watch porn with you as a game so she will start feel a part of the game, but I feel it's not gonna work.

Maybe if she doesn't grow up and be more mature separation should be an option...

Good luck!

[madotnw_nihs]

Thanks guys. Even though she did threaten with divorcing, I don't believe it really came down to it. We are in a great place now and this was something I just wanted to about. I will try some if not all of the advice here. =)

[btl857]

That is crazy. I don't know why anyone, man or woman, would have a problem with masturbation. If I were married and my wife said that I think all I could do is laugh.

[Indefinable]

Porn is very addictive. I thing you have to try forget about watching porn for a while, and then you probably will realize that in fact porn isn't so important for you. Many people are alone and dying to meet someone who share their lifes with. Don't be silly and risk your marriage. Stop wathing porn right now and respect your wife's emotional needs.

[Cerby]

Porn is very addictive. I thing you have to try forget about watching porn for a while, and then you probably will realize that in fact porn isn't so important for you. Many people are alone and dying to meet someone who share their lifes with. Don't be silly and risk your marriage. Stop wathing porn right now and respect your wife's emotional needs.

Shitty advice sadly. Watching porn is normal for most people, males especially. His wife turned into a nutcase after they got married, and she is acting irrationally. If he gives in, he just validates her being a controlling partner. I don't know what the solution is, but laying down and playing dead isn't it.

[AdminOnline]

First time posting for advice on here. I have been married for 4 months with being in a relationship with her for 5 years prior. She is the type of girl who believes men should only think about their SO for the rest of their lives. No Porn, masturbation, and so on. I want to say first of all, I do love my wife, find her very attractive and will never cheat. But I do need to take care of business few times a week on my own with the assistance of porn. It's quick and I don't have to go through the foreplay, act, and aftermath. Anyway few weeks ago she discovered I have been watching porn on some days, and declared I am cheating and wants a divorce. She even told my parents of this (terrible decision). She installed a filter on my computer to block this sort of content and states if I she catches me again, she will file for separation. I will answer this question right away, "Yes, she is insecure". There is no debating this, and I made my own bed by marrying her. Divorcing is not an option because I do love her. I also want to say the filter is not a problem as I have ten ways to bypass it. However this is going behind her back and I don't want to do that. I feel my only option is to get her to understand and accept it, but I feel that will be an impossible battle. I am also just venting a bit.

buy another mini laptop just for porn
of course, don't let her know..lol


on another note, your wife over-control your life.. you are an adult now. *facepalm*..
anyway, if you want to be with her, just stay out of porn or use the above suggested ideas..

[surfhb2]

Nut Job of a wife! Good Job Pal!!

[Boisdevie]

Nut Job of a wife! Good Job Pal!!

Yep truly awesome. Married for just 4 months and she's already threatened divorce if he doesn't stop wanking when looking at photos of ladies without their clothes on.