Here is the deal…there is a woman I been have talking to. We have some mutual friends, so I have seen her out few times over the last month. We seem to have excellent conversation and a lot in common. She is very intelligent, successful, and seems like a very fun/nice person. I’m definitely getting the vibe from her that she is interested in me. My problem is if I should ask her out. For me it is a mental attraction, however physically she is not my type. She has a pretty face, but is what I would call a “full figured gal,” is really sweet, and voluptuous women.
I’m coming out of an almost 4.5 year relationship that I ended about 8 months ago. I am ready for a relationship and want one. This would not be a rebound, as I don’t really believe in that crap and I guess I already had my fling or rebound if that was what it was. But, I don’t want to lead this girl on. I am worried that I am just a bit lonely and since this girl is giving me attention and is interesting I am tempted to ask her out. It is like when someone really likes you it feels nice to be liked, so I want to give her a chance.
So should I ask her out?