Is it bad....?
..that ,although I have TONS of ambition (to do volunteer work, try do things for society and give back, getting out of my man-cave to socialize, live the life I always wanted), I can't do any of that without being in a relationship? Is it selfish?
You couldn't imagine the struggle it is for me when out in the world. Having not done the deed or have a girl, I frequently find myself looking directly at women's tits and I panic thinking that maybe I got caught. The point of that anecdote is to somewhat illustrate my awkwardness in social situations, but it is WAY worse than most experience. And it's not a typical awkwardness; it's way worse.
So if I was in a good relationship, I'd at least have some support. I feel like I do everything myself, and until last week it had me so burned out and tired so that I slept an excessive amount of hours (I started waking up earlier last week to TRY to do more in life). I wished I could just sleep and die in my sleep. I liked staying in bed to sleep because then I could dream about being in a relationship.
Without a girl, I just can't go out and risk further humiliation and trust me, I've had MORE than my share of that.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.