Is she interested

[bpk82290]

Hello everyone, I was hoping I could get some advice on this if possible!

Yesterday me and my best friend and his girlfriend decided to drink at their place. Seeing that I was single, his girlfriend decided to call over one of her single best friends. Anyways she came over and all of us got completely wasted, and they decided to head to sleep at one point.

I couldn't drive home and neither could she so we decided to spend the night. We ended up cuddling on the couch for 7 hours just talking and ended up getting no sleep at all. She hinted at sex a few times but I really felt a connection with her so I did not want to ruin anything... She was very easy to communicate with, and we were laughing so much that my best friend kept coming out of the bedroom to tell us to be quiet rofl. After we started sobering up we exchanged numbers around morning time, and when everyone woke up we sat around all feeling like shit for some time, not much communication until I had to leave. I remember asking her a question and her response was "ya whatever" before I left, and I did not get so much as a goodbye. This made me question if she is even remotely interested, and if I should pursue with a phone call in a couple days to ask her out.

Mixed signals I tell ya!. I keep telling myself that she was only interested because she was drunk, but i dont want to believe it! Any advice?

[smackie9]

Go talk to your friend and see if you can fish out any info. Me personally I would question this girl's integerity....she just met you and wanted to boink you on her friend's couch. That should be telling you something.

[smackie9]

That you didn't ruin anything and you should have boinked her.

[bpk82290]

Thank you for the reply,
I was told she hasnt drank for several months, and juding by her character I believe it was the drinks that made her like this.

[FlaCooln]

Alcohol reduces inhibitions and she got a little too uninhibited. I think she is probably attracted to you. The next morning she was proabably hung over as hell and barely functioning, so don't worry about the lack of goodbye. I would get your friends GF to invite her again and see how it goes. You did exchange numbers, so no harm in giving her a call and inviting her out.

As for you turning down sex with her, I don't think that hurts your chances. She was really drunk and you did the right thing. I am willing to bet she respects you more for it. I have been in this situation a few times in the past and kind of turned down sex with a drunk girl and stuck to kissing and cuddling. Usually they wonder why and just have to find out, so it makes them a bit more aggressive to get ya the next time.

[Rowen]

So, you're not going to try? Or what? -sorry, is confused-

You could try to talk to her and see what happens. You never know?

[bpk82290]

"Go talk to your friend and see if you can fish out any info." thanks for the tip, she told me that they talked that morning and she was surprised that I turned down the sex ( in a good way) she also said she was complimenting me. I am most likely going to give her a call tomorrow sometime, but now I just have nerves to deal with and thinking what to say! . Btw thank you for the confidence boost Flacoolin, much appreciated. Ill update you guys tomorrow if anyone is interested. Still taking any more advice

[Rowen]

Good luck!

[michelle23]

Just text her and try to get to know her better. See how it goes. You did the right thing by saying no. Many girls regret drunken sex so well done to you

[dickriculous]

she was surprised that I turned down the sex ( in a good way)

Wtf? Last time I turned down sex with a girl she got mad and told everyone I was gay.

[bpk82290]

haha she seems like a a very nice keeper.

[pinktulips]

I was recently reading somewhere that surveys revealed that when a guy is knocked back for sex, that he will keep trying regardless, whereas women feel that it is a rejection of them personally and they tend to wonder what they did wrong. She probably took your response to suggest that you were not interested. Her 'ya whatever' is likely to be her way of giving it back to you. Asking her out will show her that you are interested, but if she is still upset about it and refuses, then you at least know where you stand and can decide whether to pursue it or let it go.