Getting her back? Depression

[Kingfisher]

My ex and I broke up a few days ago now, lets just say it happened due to work, work finally got to much and caused bickering, bickering about work, so we broke up because of that so we are both to blame, I've asked so we work different shifts and she's adament she's done with me, said every bad thinggoing, we've broke up twice before over way worse things and got back together.. But because I've done nothing wrong this time I don't know what to do to get her back.

Because she is going through depression does she really mean what she says? Is her medication really making her feel nothing at all? We were together 8 months so I started building up a understanding, lived together for 3 months and that couldn't have been a better choice!!

What do I do next? There's got to be something I can do!

[Boisdevie]

There's got to be something I can do!

Accept the reality of the situation that the relationship is over. And let's face it if you've already broken up twice before in an 8 month relationship it's not exactly a good track record is it?

[michelle23]

I agree.

8 months 3 breakups. You are not good together.

And moving in together after 5 months is never a good idea.

[pcmaster]

Maybe you need a rest from eachother. Thing about the work and family life is - you have to balance both so one dont kill the other. Could it be that you guys are expecting everything to be easy and breazy but expectations creates the pressure and when things go wrong you both start panicking?

If you are Aquarius but shes Virgin then she always gona be depresed.

[Boisdevie]

If you are Aquarius but shes Virgin then she always gona be depresed.

Some people think that all this astrology stuff is just wierd stuff that's believed by idiots. But I have to disagree. I'm a Capricorn and apparently we Capricorns have a tendency to call people cunts. Not that I'm calling you a cunt.

[Rowen]

I agree with Michelle.

To be honest, though, I won't hold back information about depression when I know it... My friend is on antidepressants, and before she was prescribed, she went through a lot of mood swings and random outbursts. She's the sweetest girl you could ever meet, but the chemical imbalance which caused the depression would make her randomly scream at her boyfriend in emotional outbursts. She finally got help because she didn't want to treat her boyfriend like a doormat.
So, it could be a product of her depression. But...You two getting back together is worth nothing if she doesn't get help.

But after three times, I'd say you should call it quits. I know you're probably going to want to keep hope, but my best advice is to move on to someone more compatible with you and who makes you happy than miserable like this.
Whether or not you use that advice is entirely up to you. I wish you the best of luck.