Not a particularly length thread, but would really appreciate your thoughts.
In a nutshell, I'm married, but my husband separated from me and moved out of our home in October. At the moment, we don't know what the future holds; I want to try and resolve our problems and make the marriage work (BUT wouldn't fall apart if that didn't happen), he is unsure and currently says he needs time and needs to sort his own head out. I wanted to put the current factors to you to see if you thought it was definitely over, or if he may in time consider coming back and trying to resolve things..
So...
He's moved out of our matrimonal home and is renting a house.
He has stopped paying half of my mortgage (I bought the home in my name).
He has our daughter three nights a week (so she is with me with me for the greater amount of four).
He still pays half of the monthly payments on a loan I took out for us both.
He still pays my TV Licence.
He still has the majority of his post sent to my house.
He still has a lot of his belongings at my house (and has not asked to collect them).
He is still registered and actively visiting my local doctors (instead of registering at one closer to where he is currently living).
He has sought legal advice regarding divorce but has not pursued this, as yet (although threatened it over a month ago).
He has not put his relationship on Facebook as single or separated.
He has not removed any of the photos of me, us or our wedding last year from Facebook.
He very often enquires with my Mum as to what I'm doing, where I go, who with, etc.
He will not say that he no longer loves me.
He wants as few people as absolutely possible to know.
We are now starting to get along with each other quite well, better than we have in a while.
So, what do you think?