i dont know if i should ask him this?

[stucknow]

If you're just seeing somebody, do you have the right to know if they're sleeping with other people? I just feel like its best to be straight up, especially with the diseases around nowadays? I'm in a situation like this but I've only been in exclusive relationships before this one. Am I overstepping my boundaries if I ask him?

[coconutz]

what do you mean with seeing somebody?
dating? relationship? talk clear !

and i think you can ask whatever you want.
but if you have to ask that makes me think how nasty people have become
now a days. that they date while they sleep around. its sad.

and shore you have to be careful then,, but i think if you
are really concern about diseases you should let the person do a test before having sex and you 2.

and i think you can ask if they are seeing someone else right now if you are just dating.
and what that means for the person.
and if you are going to get into a relationship you can shut the questions
do you sleep with people right now, w
hen was your last sex etc.

but there is more to ask so dont keep hanging on asking sex questions cause it
would sound like you have a the issue of only are interested in sex

[Boisdevie]

If you're not sure then you have the 'are we exclusive' talk. Simple.

[stucknow]

I know we aren't exclusive. But I dunno, I would let him know if there were other "options". I just feel like I deserve the same.

[michelle23]

You need to decide if you can accept this or not.

For me personally-I would not date someone who was seeing other people or sleeping around. Its all or nothing for me.

And if you are having sex with him-then yes you have every right to ask coz if he is sleeping with others-hes putting your health at risk.

My rule: dont have sex with him until your sure you are both on the same page

[stucknow]

We were on the same page for a good while, latelyhe's been a little more distant and I feel like he is bored with me. We work together (I know, trouble) but I can't exactly escape, and even when I want to I see him and all those feelings come back. I'm so confused. I dunno if he's interested at all anymore

[michelle23]

communication-ask him straight up. What are you afraid of? Its better to no for sure whether he wants to be with you or not and its all or nothing. Dont waste time on a loser whos not fully invested in you.

Just get to the point, ask him straight. If your satisfied with his answer great-if not-say goodbye.

Youll meet someone who wants to commit fully to you in time.

[Sekret]

Yeah simply when you are chatting ask him what are we doing? Where is it heading. Just chat are to make sure you are on the same page. This topic will automatically come, and simply ask him are you guys totally exclusive.