Breakup or stay together?

[Spitzer]

Hello

So I am in doubt on whether or not to give my relationship one last chance or just flush it.

The story
We been together for almost 2 years, in the beginning we had a lot to talk about and we had sex 2 times every week.
Times goes by and after 6 months we only have sex once every week or fourteen days, it's good I can live with that.
1 year goes by same amount of sex, little less to talk about and a lot less thinks to do together.
1,5 year in, now we only have sex once every month and I am kinda bored around her.
Today i don't really recall the last time we had sex but it's been around 2 months and it's becoming less frequent,
we now only talk about what we do from day to day, the weather and up coming event like her uncles birthday.
I getting the feeling I am wasting my time when i visit her and i miss sex.
Last details, her uncle is actually my math teacher but they aren't that close so i don't think that would be awkward and
i 2-3 months I am moving 2 and a half hours away and even do shes unemployed she wants to stay where she is and i don't now if
I care enough about me and her anymore at this state to pull it together and go for a long distance relationship :/

The only good thing about it is that our relationship is cozy and loving, but without the rest i don't think it's enough.

End of story

So what would you do break up or give a last chance?
Oh and bout me and her have exams until I am moving so no matter what I do the timing is going to be bad :/

[Boisdevie]

Don't talk to us, talk to her. Without good communication you can never have a good relationship.

[Spitzer]

I am going to talk to her, however I am interested in what other people would do

[michelle23]

Its normal to run out of things to talk about if you see each other all the time. But the lack of sex would really bother me too. If you still really love her-you could try to fix the issues with sex, talk about it etc or decide its not worth it and end it.

If you are moving away though and think long distance is pointless-you should end it

[Boisdevie]

I am going to talk to her, however I am interested in what other people would do

OK, work out why you're having less sex. And work out why she's boring you. Perhaps the two are related?

[smackie9]

It's not just about sex, but the level of interest for each other has died off. What do I think? if this is what it's like after only a couple of years I would bail, because it takes more than talk and sex to have a relationship sustain for the long haul. You are wasting your time.

To add IMO if she is not wanting to relocate with you and make an effort to get work, make plans for the future, that would tell me she is waiting for you to make the first move to pull the plug on this relationship.

[basilandthyme]

I wouldn't talk. I'd walk. Away from the relationship.

[Trying]

I think u know what needs to be done as do I with my thread if yr not happy now best to leave now, much better than putting in years together & then having to walk away or have some other heart break. Watch a romantic movie. The love on screen can be yrs!! Let her down gently say we r just like friends, lets stay friends. Good luck!

[Spitzer]

So I think an update would be appropriate, I had a talk with her and we agreed on giving it one last chance. The idea is that if we can make some progress with in a month or two it's over. Besides this also gives bout me and her time to our finals without having to deal with family asking and broken hearts

I will make an update again when something new happens

[smackie9]

Best of luck then