Another female here. To be honest, I don't see much difference between being male or female dumper.
1) First things that comes to your mind? (other than thinking about getting one-stand)
Freedom. Peace. Calm. Oh, did I mention, freedom?
2) First thing you should do? (other than hitting the club)
Find somewhere else to live. Unfriend on FB.
3) How about the stuffs she gave to you? What will you do to them?
Depends if it was good stuff or crap. Crap goes in the bin, good stuff will continue to be used. I would never return gifts, nor would I want gifts I gave returned to me. If someone did return the gifts I gave, I would think he's a spiteful piece of shite. My sister's ex not only returned her gifts, but gave the children back the gifts that they'd given him too. How nasty.
4)Do you still check your phone for her texts, or IMs in Skype/Yahoo and emails (if LDR), even if you knew she isn't gonna send you one?
No
5) Pretty plain fact that the dumper always have a headstart on moving on. Does that mean there is no more hurt for you?
Yep. Did all the navel gazing while I was still in the relationship.
6) Did your ex's face, or the memories of her, or the times you have together, EVER crossed your mind? How frequent?
Not often.
7) Breaking a habit, especially if it involves her, is it bearable? Or do you often found yourself sitting during that time and missing her instead, thinking what she's doing?
Thinking about them and wondering what they are doing? You've gotta be kidding.
8) Since you're the ones who broke up (which is not typical), does it mean you fall out of love of us completely, even before break up? (i know guys who are thinking of break up often gives cold treatment to girls)
Yes, the love goes before the relationship gets ended.
9) If you broke up with her out of your anger, is there any possibility that you regret it later on? Especially if you realize you are wrong and that you have let go of someone you think you can never ever find someone like her again?
I've never regretted a breakup. And there are plenty of fish in the sea with equally good attributes
10) What if you want her back, and you've realized she moved on (and cut off any means of comm), but still thinks that she loves you, what would you normally do? give up and leave or try to win her back? (cause sometimes we girls just need to see how far will you go this time to have us back)
I would never get back with an ex.
Last edited by basilandthyme; 19-03-13 at 08:14 AM.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.