i like her but I'm just not feeling it

[goodluckchuck]

There's this girl that I've been hanging out with since my breakup she's good company and all after sex we had a talk and she asked me what I wanted ou and she asked me what I wanted out of directions show but I just recently m ended and is not looking fo anythin anything serious she's wonderful and all but I'm jus she's wonderful and all but I'm just not feeling it. I'm still a little numb from my previous relationship he seems like a great person but she's not m I'm looking for mor what she has to offe no not materialistic but I do like a girl who has a job and can take care of urself so I ask what do I do I told her and need so and need some time after that she told me she that it was best that I don't see her anymore what do I do

[pcmaster]

All I can say is good luck Chuck !

[FoundAgain]

Just give yourself a rest from girls and when you're ready act Good luck!

[michelle23]

Just tell her ur not ready for another relationship and stay single for awhile.

Tip: if ur gonna have sex with a girl-have that conversation first in future. She prov feels used and hurt now so well done. Give urself a clap on the back.

I think u shud stay away from women until u are ready for a relationship

[goodluckchuck]

Just tell her ur not ready for another relationship and stay single for awhile.

Tip: if ur gonna have sex with a girl-have that conversation first in future. She prov feels used and hurt now so well done. Give urself a clap on the back.

I think u shud stay away from women until u are ready for a relationship

True but Im a dude, I would be nutts if I turned sex down.

[goodluckchuck]

But you are right Michelle. I feel bad. I didnt think she wanted more after a few dates.

[pepperanne1016]

just be honest with her you dont want to lead her on either. if you just broke up with a girlfriend you need time to heal before you can start dating again. i get your a guy and what guy wants to turn down sex or getting some but if you do tell the girl from the beginning that your not looking for a relationship right now

[michelle23]

True but Im a dude, I would be nutts if I turned sex down.

Having sex with someone you find unattractive and have no intention of dating is desperate. Whats wrong with your right hand until you learn to respect yourself and women?