Processing Feelings Over Boyfriend's Sons Mom

[Wakeup]

Now, hopefully he will grow up and get things settled and her as much out of your lives as possible while you give him the space he obviously needs to grow up and get it done on his own.

You didn't ask for this advice but I suggest that before you introduce your children to any partner, make sure it's going to last and that there is zero baggage from past relationships still very actively going on and it's going to be a good and healthy emotionally mature relationship so that they don't have to have new men coming in and out of their young lives. That should go for your (ex?) boyfriend as well. When you have children, you have to make sure their best emotional health is being taken care of.

Good luck, I hope he grows up and realizes what has to be done in order for a decent women to keep him in her life.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

You should start taunting her whenever she steps out of line. Next time she contacts you, tell her you're sorry she wasn't good enough for him. Tell her it must be hard to lose her man to a better woman and she'll never have the family she wants but she'll survive. Be apologetic and condescending. It'll drive her nuts. Make sure to laugh at her too.

Maybe mention the kid too. Something along the lines of, "I can't wait for little Tommy to come over again, we always have so much fun together."

Just don't lose your cool with her, that's what she wants. Stay calm, laugh, make things awkward for her.